We all have NEEDS and DESIRES when it comes to relationships, don't we?

There are some needs and desires that are more important than others, and if they are not fulfilled, we may feel a lot of pain and frustration.

Often, such needs come from our childhood wounds…

One woman sent me these questions a few days ago, and I'd like to share the answers here as I receive this type of questions very often.

How do you communicate to your partner what you want in intimacy? How to postpone his release, so we both can enjoy it longer? I feel that my needs at this moment are not fulfilled and I feel frustration. I want to know what I can do in this case….

The last few days were FIERY.

Full moon phenomenon?

I don't know.

Out of the blue, RAGE went to its peak.

Rage about…

I am a classical example of a woman who was made to believe from childhood on that s€xual pleasure is wrong and that she needs to be able to please a man s€xually if she wants to have a long-term relationship.

Millions of other women are conditioned from…

“Dance for me”, he said after the whole terrace was filled with orgasmic waves merged with the sun warmth.

I danced under the olive tree while amrita (a Sanskrit word that is also used for female orgasmic liquid) was sweetly running down my legs. Witnessing my hips move softly and my heart expanding and merging with nature. Feeling his…

At the Fluisterfestival

First womens circle of today was about self-pleasure. We shared what role it plays in our life today.

Mmmhhh

I have to think back to the time when I recognised pleasure in my yoni for the first time. I was 2-3 years old. This is when the self-exploration already began. Innocent, curious, open, trusting.

Until it was reflected to me by my mother…

Earlier this week, I had a spa day with girlfriends and we talked, of course, also about Relationships.

The one single NEED that prevailed above all else was

TO BE MET

To be met in heart

To be met in sex

To be met in…

For the past few days, I am in a process that I know intimately.

It comes to me every 3-5 years.

I used to call it mid-life crisis (first one hit me at 15yo!!)

I called it a space in-between.

Dissolution of the old and birth of the new.

I also used to call it Liminal Space.

What it is…

It took us some time to find a kindergarten that would accept our flow and not insist on fixed hours of arrival and departure, and oh it’s so much worth it!

Waking up without rushing, taking as much or as little time as we want for cuddling, playing, or simply running in the garden, and when the flow is complete we take off and…

Exhaling and integrating today after 4 rich days devoted to Eroticism (and the rest of life! )!

It was BIG. It was DIVERSE. It was INTENSE.

Buzzzzzing.

This retreat touched on so many themes and layers. I think I've never experienced so much diversity in such a short period of time with one group.

ONE thing is KEY for authentic eroticism…

Heading towards 5 years together, I bow to the depth of LOVE we share today.

We met in soul connection, we chose each other, we met each other’s shadows and we went through periods of struggles, each time we creatively found a way towards an even deeper connection and love.

Relationship makes us face all of ourselves.

It is Evolution in action.

It calls on my child pieces to…

I’m a traveller at heart.

A gypsy.

Long beach days are not for me.

I need to move.

To explore.

To follow the flow.

Wherever it takes me.

And this is how I ground…

Several of you have been hearing me raving about HUMAN DESIGN.

We as a family have done 3 readings in total for 1. myself, 2. Dylan, 3. our daughter plus relational readings for Dylan and I, Alisia and I, Dylan and Alisia. Wow, powerful stuff! REVELATIONAL in many aspects…

For the last 5 years, Dylan and I have been in a monogamous relationship. Since about 3 years, we have started talking about the possibility to open our relationship. The baby chapter naturally delayed it for a couple of years. But last fall, we both felt we were ready to…

Now it's easy to lose a friend, a brother, a loved one. And it's not just about war.

Even just one day can draw a deep separation between us, if we are not aware.

People get angry now if you:

are for Russia

are for Ukraine

are for…

There are several ways initiation into Tantra can happen.

For me, it happened several years ago through a Tantra Massage that I received from a professional Tantra masseur who at that time was a boyfriend of one of my best friends. She gifted me a 3-hour Tantra Massage session with him as a Birthday Gift…

I spent my first 20 years in Russia and the last 20 years in the West. I hold a double citizenship: Russian and Belgian. I have Ukrainian friends and some students.

Based on the above three lines of text, you might think you somewhat know me, you might project things on me, create…

Almost 2,5 months of silence from my side on this channel. And now I finally know and ready to share WHY.

Last weekend, I held Module 3 "Unleash Your Ecstatic Potential" and on the last day of the retreat we did a practice around SELF-WORTH. I was doing a DEMO for participants and at some point…

No single killed life can be justified.

My mother’s heart will never agree with any good reason for it.

Killing life is killing love.

This conflict is not between…

Starting this morning with Raffaello.

It's not an advertising. It's a celebration!!!

Celebration to be back at home, with my loved ones, in my/our own energy. It's a lot to be grateful for.

Past 12 days spent in Russia have been tough for me in many ways. And the biggest lesson is:

"Do anything necessary to create the right conditions for what you need wherever you are."

It happened such that I could not sleep a single night there because of…