At the Fluisterfestival
First womens circle of today was about self-pleasure. We shared what role it plays in our life today.
Mmmhhh
I have to think back to the time when I recognised pleasure in my yoni for the first time. I was 2-3 years old. This is when the self-exploration already began. Innocent, curious, open, trusting.
Until it was reflected to me by my mother that it was something shameful to do…
As from that moment onwards, I did it no longer in the open, but secretly. I could not stop, because it felt sooo good!
If before, it was something like 5-10 minutes masturbation while no one sees me. Today, it evolved to a consciously planned self-pleasure ritual. I usually allocate 2-3 hours for self-pleasure and do it 1-2 times a week.
Warming the room, heating the oil, candles, incense, and a slow exploration, which brings me to different places each time, to new valleys and peaks.
You can literally see activities in 3 colors in my agenda.
Violet - sensual and tantric self- practices and love making with my partner/s
Green - nature, sports and friendships
Orange - work-related things to do
And the family weaves it all together.
I no longer leave PLEASURE and FUN to chances, or at the mercy of time. It is an equal priority.
Self-pleasure is one of the most nourishing things to do as it activates so much juiciness and passion in my body. I look in the mirror after it and I’m literally plugged in. Eyes shining, energy expanded, I feel super relaxed and spacious.
What is the role of self-pleasure in your life?
