12 days mama, 12 days family

Dylan, myself and our daughter Alisia. 👨‍👩‍👧
1+1=3

Alisia, this tiny baby, naturally became the center of our universe as if she was always there and it's never been any different.

Eating, sleeping, diapers... and loooots of Love! 😄😍

My mother's eyes can gaze and admire her for hours. Everything about her is sweet, new and familiar at the same time. Her gentle sighs, her moving hands, her gazing into nowhere.

I am deeply grateful to Leen Heusdens and Lies Melis, two incredible experienced midwives, for guiding me through natural birth-giving at home in water. Thank you so much. I am so happy I could do it this way. You knew to provide the right guidance at each step of birth-giving. 🙏💕

It was far from orgasmic birth. I had…

The feeling of gratitude is overflowing me.

Each day I wake up in wonder that I am ALIVE, that I can see, that I can breath, that I can participate in this life in ANY way I choose.

It's all up to me how I relate to things, how I perceive things. In wonder or in resistance, in awe or in judgement. None is better than the other - it's all my creation anyway.

I am the one making it easy or difficult for myself.

In every moment, I have a choice to follow my truth or to twist it.

I know that in some dozens of years (or maybe already much sooner, who knows) I will not…

Inspired to share this after a conversation with a friend this morning when we spoke about fears that may prevent to fully live the life of our soul's movement.

Surrendering to Life.
This is my biggest Joy and also the Red Line of my Tantra work.

Life that expresses itself through me as an impulse, as a desire, as a need, as a longing, as an inspiration, as beauty, as whatever else that wants to flow through me at any given moment.

Some people say that they…

Feeling very gentle today.🎀

I took some time this morning to meditate, to do some energy work, to be in silence, in preparation for the 4-days Module 2 "Shining Light on Hidden Desires" retreat that is starting tomorrow with a group of 35. And even though my whole being is since a couple of weeks already cocooning and turning inwards, I am very much looking forward to these 4 playful days together with my team. :-)

Otherwise, how does it feel now to be pregnant in my 9th month?

The biggest desire I experience is…

If I am responsible for my experiences that are happening in my reality, it implies that I have a steering wheel of 'my' Consciousness.

Consciousness is primary. The manifested reality follows Consciousness.

Some people still believe that they are finding themselves at the mercy of circumstances because things are happening to them.

What if everything that happened to you in Life until now was all your Creation, conscious and/or unconscious?…

My body is finally slowing me down.

This morning I went for a walk in nature and instead of 45 minutes I walked the same route for 1,5 hours. 🥰

My body chooses to…

Before the festive season begins, I am inspired to look back at 2019, stand still & acknowledge everything that has happened this year. Oh life, a pure field of possibilities! Each day I wake up and weave my own reality. One word that comes up when I think back about 2019 is CO-CREATION.✨🥰

✨Most important is the co-creation that happened between…

Just woke up an hour ago... from the most peaceful and deep night in months, 10 hours straight.

The impact of Elaisa Energetic Wellness... My goodness! 😮
It's like we traveled to another planet and just came back.

This statue of a massive Egyptian Goddess ISIS greeted us at the entrance as we walked in. It's bigger than a man-size statue. So, just imagine the scale of this place.

Inspired by the Temples of Egypt, the massive architecture of this place includes the wisdom of sacred geometry. Abundance of massive Egyptian and Buddhist statues as well as massive crystals creates a very unique energy. Water in the whole wellness is…

Tantra doesn't target to have a good intimate life, good sex or a good relationship.

Tantra is a path that invites to live in Truth. It reminds us who we are, our true nature. It invites us to LIVE fully, naturally surrendering to the way life expresses itself through us. Without manipulation of life energy.

Then if Tantra is about that, how come in the West it is so linked to Sex?…

experience vs dropping all knowledge and surrendering to the Source.

Two worlds apart! 🔥

The first one is…

We needed so little in the desert.

We slept under the stars, in warm sleeping bags but without roof. Facing the immensity of the sky day and night does something to your psyche.

We ate simple local veggies with legumes and drank tea with local herbs prepared on a fire. 🔥

We barely used any water except for drinking. Shower was not there, and yet the body felt clean.

Really... just back to basics. This is when we realize…

Love is all around.
Am I available for it?

Expansion into Love is not just a beautiful idea or something that is available to the lucky few. It is a…

In this later morning I'm in my Kali energy and I would like to share her medicine with you. 🔥🔥🔥

Maa Kali is a warrior Goddess in the Hindu traditions that is destroying all that is Untrue (in other words, all the bullshit!).

When I see people being asleep, I feel a lot of compassion. This is the very reason that puts me on fire to do the work I am doing. When I see people unconsciously choosing to stay asleep again and again, it wakes up Kali in me.

Awakening is a process and yet it happens in an instant.
It requires a trained muscle to STAY AWAKE.

Often times in my work I observe this phenomenon which usually plays out BEFORE couples or singular partners who are in a couple decide to join Tantra retreats.

The phenomenon is....

One of the partners wants to explore Tantra or, in other words, what they really want is to re-connect, deepen or heal intimate connection in their relationship, while the other partner either feels attacked by it (assuming that the other suggests it is because "s/he is not good enough") or resistant to give it a chance for one or another of 100's of reasons.

It is a FACT that…

Have you ever wondered if you live an authentic life?

And if it's at all a good idea.

For me, Authenticity has always been one of the themes that fascinated me the most, next to the themes of Inner Freedom and Death.

I've deepened my understanding of authenticity over years and each time a new layer was revealed, it was comparable to shedding skin and coming even more home.

The more I welcomed authenticity in my own life, the less questions remained about who I am, how I create my reality and what drives it all.

 just came back from a long weekend in Ghent and after opening my emails, I'm pleasantly surprised that we are already sold OUT for next Module 1 "Conscious Intimacy Retreat" on September 5-8th, which is more than a month in advance! 😯🤭

It doesn't necessarily need to come through a partner or a beloved. Making it a single focus may create quite a narrow channel for love to flow through you.

Keep focusing on being and doing things you love, including being with people you love.

This alone creates such a flow of love. ❤️

Gratitude for the week spent in a circle of 50+ women from all possible parts of this planet, of various ages, of different walks of life.

What do we do in women circles like this?

Some men tell me they'd like to sneak in to see what's happening in circles like these.

The intense retreats season in Belgium is complete for now... till the end of August when "Tantra Massage for Beginners" will kick off again and in the beginning of September the 1 Year Tantra Program "Expansion into Love" will re-start with a new group, this time near Ghent.

Fear of loneliness makes so many people compromise, hide things, not live authentically. If only we realized that we are alone anyway...

How would it be to fall back on noone else but on to yourself?

How would it feel to be complete with yourself and not needing someone around to complete you?

How would it be to live life authentically because you are not afraid to be rejected or abandoned?

Of course, we are social being and not meant to be alone. Of course, the longing to share our life with someone is natural.