You know, I'm here on Ibiza, in one of its untouched parts in the nature. Birds are singing, sea is so beaitiful and clean. And I'm just once again so grateful to nature, to my body being part of it. Nature is the place where mind calms down the fastest. NATURE - our source and foundation of this physical existence and our biggest teacher.

We feel incredible love towards each other, and we also experience the biggest pain through each other.

Dylan and I are touching on each other's core pain lately.

I get tears in my eyes, touched to the core of my being when I connect to your Essence, to my Essence.

Sweet sister of mine. <3

So relieved I am to meet You. 
To meet you as you Are.

There is no one particular way how a Woman better be or should be. Patriarchy dictated how we must be for a long time, but now the free Female is rising again in many parts of this planet. Rising in her inborn wisdom into her freedom and power!

So blessed I am being able to BE with you each day, to choose you again and again and to be chosen by you. Chosen so totally that it feels like "iron-sealed" and yet I have never felt freer before.

When I met You, I thought, "Wow, with this age difference (14 years) it will never work!"

But you have proven and keep proving me wrong.

You have proven that physical age doesn't matter. That our souls' age is much more important than the age of this body.

And so I enjoy your handsome look and draw on the wisdom of your soul. :-)

GROWTH being one of my core values ever since I remember myself (next to FREEDOM and AUTHENTICITY), means I will never settle in the 'expert' role. The moment I have learned something, my spirit calls me to evolve further. I spent and am still spending most of my free time and money on learning/unlearning, and I doubt it will change. :-)

Yesterday, we had a very raw revealing conversation about all the underlying thoughts, emotions and beliefs that drive us in our relating. After speaking them out from both sides, we could see the full picture and both were astonished at the amount of assumptions that happened on each side and which created a lot of twisted interpretations.

This is one of the most crucial things to realize.

Consciously or unconsciously, I create my Reality.

When I feel great, it's easy to say: "Look what I've created!"

But in times of turmoil, I wish I could say: "It's because of him or her, or them or life itself that it's happening". It's just so much easier to blame someone or something for any unpleasant experience than to look inside and see what creates this experience.

When people ask me what I do and I say that I am a Tantra teacher with the focus of my programs on love, sexuality and relationships, I like to look at their reactions. Because the reaction, in a matter of milliseconds, reveals to me their attitude towards Sexuality, towards their Body, how they make Love, how connected they are to their Emotions and so much more...

Not everything is pinky rosy in relationships - what to do when sh.t hits the fan? 💔

Are you finding yourself in an unpleasant pattern with your beloved?

Having worked with many couples in the past, I see that the most common reason of long disconnection between two people is the belief that it's the other who needs to change. Rarely people see their own responsibility in co-creating the undesirable reality.

At the age of 11, I entered an Orthodox church for the 1st time. I was kicked out of it in a matter of minutes by an old lady who sold candles at the entrance. I made a cross with my LEFT hand. That was WRONG! "You are from the Devil!" she screamed. Little I knew who that 'guy' was, so I did not take it too personally. My grandma clarified it for me though that very same day.

In the last Open Tantra Workshop in Brussels a couple of days ago, we spoke about it extensively and we also did a powerful practice, as a result of which some people started arriving to the realization that owning your pleasure is in fact in the same realm as self-love. Because we can not own our pleasure without self-love, and we can't holistically love ourselves if we are not experiencing pleasure in our body.

So grateful how the past week unfolded. The new morning ritual at 5 am kicked my butt to places I have not expected. 😅🙌

I feel ecstatic this morning.😊

7 days ago I came across this idea to join a 5AM club and spend the 1st hour fine-tuning my Body, Heart and Mind for the day (Robin Sharma was my inspiration this time!).

I started doing it since then and it's been truly mind-blowing.

While most of the population is still asleep and the collective energy field is calm and clear, I find myself doing all kinds of yummy stuff, preparing for the day.

What's the point of being successful if you are success according to society, but you are a failure according to yourself?

Living success is living life on Your own terms, realizing Your dreams, living according to Your values.

If there is one message I would like to share with you on this Day which is celebrated in our honor across the Globe, it would be this:

This world needs
Our Radiance
Our Passion
Our Aliveness
Our Fullness
Our Love

There is enough resignation, pain and fear in the world, so we don't need to add more of this.

The past couple of months I can now call with a smile "the period of internal UPGRADE". Not only myself, but also so many other people went through some considerable re-definition in their life, clearing the old and opening up to the unknown or something new. These transition times are usually not easy because a lot is being re-shaped internally and as a consequence also externally.

Maybe you too went through something similar recently?

Clarity of Vision was my request for many days in a row now and I feel that hanging in the possibility of it opened up a lot of insights and led me to people, books and experiences that kept and keep revealing things. By far, I don't believe I have arrived anywhere... And probably never will. That's what I suspect.

HOW could I be so blind not to see this earlier!?

Thanks to a conversation with a friend today and reading the book "A Return to Eros" recommended by another friend 2 days ago, I had a huge AHA moment!

What I'm going to share here is quite personal... and I don't mind at all as the nature of work I do is quite intimate and personal.