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I was looking forward to devoting 1 full year after giving birth just to Alisia, not doing anything work-related, no other projects except building a retreat center.
But it's impossible!
Even though a part of me still wants to do only that, there is another part of me that is like an endless Fountain (!!!). It wants nothing else but to create! It wakes me up at night and I can't fall asleep until I 'download' all that stream of inspiration on paper.
I wake up with…
Unless you've tasted the power of Authenticity and surrender to the Whole, it all is just a nice concept and there are so many good reasons to not be fully authentic with yourself & others and not to trust Life.
Our individual mind is limited as it is only concerned with oneself. It is surrendering this mind of ours to the wisdom of the Whole that allows us to have access to Grace, where everyone benefits.
When I surrender to the Whole, the Whole takes…
Is it always it?
I used to have fears of flying in an airplane. Each time before my flight I had a gut feeling that this plane would crash and that maybe I should not fly. And like this each time my gut feeling was trying to rescue me, and each time I eventually flew and stayed alive.
When I met men in my life who resembled my father, I had a gut feeling that these are nice men and I can trust them. And if I met men who…
Have you ever wondered why some people can't stop CREATING and others can't stop DOUBTING?
Creation comes from your life energy engaging your mind.
Doubt comes from your mind engaging your life energy.
From one you feel energized and from the other you feel drained.
And it all depends whether you nourish primarily your BODY & LIFE ENERGY or your MIND.
Since I discovered…
Money is an artificial construct created by humans. In nature there is no money. Money becomes real when we give it the status of reality. 😄
It's a big joke and yet it's real in our consciousness.
When you look at you bank account, you think you see how much money is there. Nope. You see figures flickering on the screen. And depending on the number of figures and their configuration, people feel good or bad.
Money is most of the time not an authentic driver for creation, unless…
I'm fascinated by creation. I love witnessing my inner fountain burst in inspiration and ideas! I love seeing these ideas manifested.
There is one secret about creation that I'd like to share with you today.
Any new authentic creation starts from inner inspiration and joy, not from external motivation and right calculation.
When I choose to give birth to something, the main indicator for me is…
Alisia, our little daughter, is our natural alarm clock. She wakes up with the first sun light and falls asleep with darkness of the night.
This morning she was awake shortly before 6am and so were we. 😄✌️
I joined the workshop "OSHO Chakra breathing meditation" with Jacobijn Erdtsieck this morning at 7am.
What a powerful way to start a day and a whole week!
Years ago, when I just learned this meditation, I used to passionately hate it, because it was…
Some years ago, I was in a relationship where we lost intimacy, actually so great hard to believe, and one day it all collapsed. Of course, it did not happen in one day, but in my perception it was from one day to the other. Both me and my partner were quite devastated about it but we could not find our way back to each other. My search started to find a solution…
We are CELEBRATING today!!! 🥳
Please be THE FIRST one to celebrate with us!
The Temple of Tantric Arts TEAM & myself have put so much LOVE & PASSION in this CREATION over the last 2 weeks and it is finally ready!
Temple of Tantric Arts ONLINE
♥ First workshops are already starting as from May 18th! ♥
This online platform is something totally unique in the world of Tantra.
You get access to…
Last week, I shared with you how my partner and I are different on so many levels and that it is still possible to be fulfilled in a relationship like this. And I promised to you to share how we bridge polarities in our intimate life.
I am very excited to share this with you!
It took me so many years to figure out how it works. I used to sulk or eventually quit relationships because I would hit a wall not knowing how to bridge our differences.
"How fascinating!" as an attitude towards differences of your partner is not a little thing. This attitude is…
What's the SECRET of ecstatic living?
Ecstasy is directly linked to the amount and quality of ENERGY flowing through me.
Am I a mountain river after rain or merely a river bed in the drought season?
1. BODY
Is my body happy?
If not, let's ask it what it needs.
Movement-wise
Nutrition-wise
Physical practices that invite…
My two treasures 💗💗
Being in this relationship is a true blessing.
It feels 100% right.
And yet, we are soooo different. Never in my life I had to reconcile so many polarities. 😄
Dylan loves VIRTUAL world where he can live 100 lives in parallel plus this one with us, his family. I love my ONE world here, grounded in flesh and bones.
He eats almost everything I don't eat and vice versa - just a few things we can share when it comes to having dinner together.
I love working with…
Today I woke up feeling so LUCKY. 🤩
Surrounded by the tribe with whom I strongly resonate - creative, daring, bad ass and warm, loving, caring at the same time. We connected today on the call, brainstormed juicy stuff... even lockdown can't stop us to be in Connection, have Fun and share Love. 😄
You know... it means a lot to have people around vibrating on the same level. Finding your tribe is so very very precious. What's important for me is Trust and Care for each other, as well as being able to admit when we screw up and take responsibility for it. That simple! ✨
I am still buzzing with orgasmic energy after yesterday's online workshop with Jonathan, my 'partner in crime'... "FLOGGER DANCE"... of all things!
On the RECEIVING side now. ☝️😊
How many times in my own…
This morning, I woke up at 5 AM to feed my baby girl. I remembered we are still in a lockdown.
Having studied the history of flu virus epidemics in the past couple of days, I was sad to realize that at least till autumn this year (or possibly even longer), my parents won't be able to fly to Belgium or me to Russia, and this means that they therefore won't meet their granddaughter till then. In the meantime, she grows and changes so fast. Yes, we can Skype, but it's not the same. 😔
Instead of going back to sleep in the state of sadness, I started cultivating PLEASURE in my body. I first…
The Universe is loud and clear and the inner response is YES! 🥰
I kept counting yesterday in bed... and arrived to 18 women (!!!) in my field who are either pregnant or gave birth recently. When I looked at geography and language, I was astonished. My heart jumped! Most of them live in proximity of me, either in Belgium or in the Netherlands, and the absolute majority speak Dutch as a mother tongue. Most of them I got to know through my Tantra work. Others via friends.
Wow.
I reached out to all these women with a possibility to unite…
Being in contact with this little being every day, looking at her, holding her, smelling her makes me feel the purest form of LOVE I've ever experienced.
She can wake me up 100 times at night, and I still love her and want to be there for her.
When I had a womb infection after giving birth and I was lying in bed with high fever not able to even move, I don't know where the power came from to breastfeed her, but this is the only thing I could still do, as if by miracle my pain was lifted for a short while.
Even her dirty diapers are the best in the whole world. Haha, I am writing it and having a good laugh. Because it is true. 🥰
Thank you, life, for this experience, I am so so grateful.
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Looking back...
For the biggest part of my life, I did not want to have children, because I felt that 1 or 2 tiny humans would "steal" my entire life that I could otherwise enjoy all by myself…
If I were to give a label to my daily practice, I'd call it "emptying my mind".
What works for me miraculously is getting PHYSICAL by either doing yoga, dancing, or doing active physical meditations like Osho Kundalini, Chakra Breathing and Dynamic meditations. Yesterday I did yoga, this morning I did the Kundalini meditation.
What works for Dylan to empty his mind is…
I feel like a child. 😊👀
Just came from a walk in the sun with this tiny innocent being.
Everything is blossoming! 🌺🌺🌺
The streets are so calm that I could hear birds singing. It reminded me of my childhood, when there were not so many cars on the streets. The air feels fresh and clean.
Only a local supermarket, a post office and a church are open.
The government never gave instructions about the church, I realized. So, they decide what they do by themselves, I guess. I wonder if they will hold a mess (or was it spelled a 'mass'?) if enough people come 😜.
As I was walking I suddenly had a big smile. Why is it that there is a global CRISIS of such a scale and I feel so joyful and peaceful inside?
To me, it feels…
