Last year, I felt a strong calling to participate in the program "Sex, Love, Relationships" coaching with Layla Martin. She studied human sexuality at Stanford and then spent the next 10 years in the jungles of Asia working with Tantric masters. Layla blends ancient Tantric wisdom with modern science and applies it to relationships and sex. Her Youtube channel has more than 65 million views. It's an incredible woman - every weekly LIVE call I had with her was WoW!
And so we were with 400+ enrolled in the program this year. Next year she opens 600+ places in the same program.
Some people reached out to me to ask for references about it. I can honestly say IT'S GREAT! It's intense and will challenge even the most experienced student, but it's got wealth of wisdom that you can drink from for years. In this whole year I did not get bored even once, so much the program has to offer, on TOP of everything that I already knew and practiced in this area.
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I want to share about the financial challenge I had last year when deciding to join this program.
The calling to join the program was strong, but I had literally no €12k to pay for it, because we (Dylan and I) put all our reserves into the purchase of the house on top of the mortgage we took. Plus Corona cancelled all my live events through a series of lock downs for many months.
My circumstances clearly said NO.
Yet deep inside I felt that this was exactly the right thing to do, and the perfect timing too. After pregnancy and having spent almost 1 year with my baby girl, I felt I needed fresh high-quality Tantric input and lots of disciplined self-practice. And also, I wanted to revive my love for individual coaching, which I lost in favor of working with groups.
I kept feeling into it for a few weeks, and my inner voice would not change. I felt I had no other choice but do it, and trust that it would turn out alright, similarly to how I did it already so many times in the past. So I took the most stretched out payment option that was available, with monthly payouts during 24 months, to not feel the pressure too much. With a not yet even 1-year old baby in my arms, trusting that also here it would all work out.
The moment I signed up, I felt such an inner ALIGNMENT. And just scrolling through some pre-program materials was giving me so much value already.
Literally a couple of weeks later after I signed up, and 1 month before the program started, I got the inspiration to offer an online course for couples. I had no clue how many couples would join, but by chance or not, the launch of the program paid my whole Sex, Love & Relationships subscription in one go. Literally, 1 month before the program officially started, it was already paid.
This is how it works for me when I trust my soul's movement.
I just know from experience that there would be no inspiration or desire to do anything if it was not possible for me (or anyone else!). So, the mere fact that the desire for something is inside of me means that circumstances are bound to align, even though they may be completely opposite in the moment.
Money has never stopped me to follow my truth. There were times when I'd rather have lost all material wealth than compromise on my path. And a couple of times, I was close to broke. And yet, in the end, it always turned out just right, and I never ever had to regret my decisions.
I really want to inspire all people to live their life departing from inner truth rather than from circumstances be it money, time, connections, etc. Life lived from circumstances will never make us fulfilled. Life lived from our soul's truth will challenge us, will call up all of our courage at times, but it will also be the life truly worth living. I wish they taught this at SCHOOL as the main subject.
And besides having a kick ass inspiring year, I also gave a 100+ coaching sessions without having promoted them even once. It's really a matter of resonance, I feel. People just know what you hold as a gift for them and you pop up in their mind when they need what you have. I was so touched and grateful this year to observe this "butterfly" phenomenon.
I'm curious how you relate to this in your own life.
What are you guided by in your decisions? What is your compass?
