I got a message this morning from a male friend who shared with me that there is a new Facebook group created in Limburg initiated by a woman who wrote a message about the longing for intimacy with men and holding back on presenting herself this way because men want more... some women replied struggling with the same.
It triggers something in me.
Because I'm also aware of many men who became overly cautious with approaching women, especially after #metoo campaign a little while ago in which many women expressed times when they felt abused.
And so both women and men long for intimate contact and both have their foot on the breaks.
There is somewhere a confusion in our minds about intimacy and sex. Both are beautiful and relevant, yet intimacy can be experienced with almost everyone on various levels (from heart to sensuality), and sex we are naturally more choosy about.
I wish both men and women can enjoy intimate contact without the fear or the need for it to end up having sex.
So, what's needed for both to step into their heart's desire for intimacy?
What's needed for women to feel safe to experience intimate contact, playfulness, ease without being scared having their boundaries crossed?
What's needed for men to stay connected to their biological 'hunter' feelings, their craving while being aware of the switch between following the flow of the common energy and the desire to "drag her into his cave"?
I'm curious...
About us:
Dylan and I met in May of 2017 and since then, we have been intensely together, first travelling and living in Thailand for 2 months, then travelling through Greece and Spain, until we decided to settle down in Belgium, where you will find us now.
