The whole day today I am vibrating with the energy of the past 4 days spent with very diverse and unique couples and an incredible support team of 6 individuals who once have gone through a similar process themselves.
Each couple had their own unique story, dynamics, beauties and challenges.
They came to re-connect with their partner on a new level, to understand themselves better, to let go of the possible painful past, resolve some un-working dynamics in their relationship, and discover deeper ways of being intimate.
Some of the couples benefited the most from tapping into the power of authenticity after many years (sometimes 10 or 20) of trying to not hurt each other, but as a result feeling huge distance between each other. With the right context and timing, such conversations are truly life changing. I was a witness of light igniting in the eyes again as they started seeing each other without unspoken filters, even when before sharing this felt like mission impossible.
Others were caught in the dynamics of push and pull which may drive partners into the downward spiral of separation and pain instead of union and love. For some couples, we attended to the needs of the inner child and simplified what may have felt like very complex and unresolvable dynamics. Indeed, sometimes, couples may relate not from their adult self parts but from their child self parts (or hurt self parts) which can create this push and pull reality.
Some of the participants felt life energy streaming through their body for the first time in their life. Others felt in real time how their body speaks (like throat contraction saying to speak truth); yet others healing their trauma’s while being held in unconditional love & acceptance when the trauma surfaced.
Most couples had a great benefit from improving their communication. Everyone got good intentions, but words used without awareness of their impact can create so much of unnecessary misunderstanding, confusion and pain. Unwinding this requires some deeper awareness and, honestly, just really proven working tools, because it's not possible to resolve issues in the same way they were created.
What inspires me the most in doing this work is clearing everything that is in the way to live our true essence... in relationships but also in a bigger context of life. This is the red line. I am not so much interested in small fixes here and there, even though they may feel nice, and can be small steps towards the bigger clearing I am referring to. What my heart truly beats for is when people awaken to their true essence & power in their relationships and life at large, and I love inviting people to access it through the portal of love, intimacy, sexuality coupled with creating deeper holistic awareness.
I am so grateful today for being able to do this work live again.
