Day 2 of the "BEYOND fear" MasterClass was about RELATIONSHIPS .
It was vulnerable, it was deep, it was meaningful.
While preparing for the Masterclass, I took time to reflect how I've been showing up in my own relationships.
I saw that in the past, when FEAR ruled and when it translated into projections, blame or disconnect, relationships did not flourish or even ended.
When, on the other hand, LOVE was on the forefront, and BOTH parties contributed love, understanding & respect into a relationship, such relationships blossomed and are still blossoming in my life.
Either way…
IT TAKES (at least) TWO TO TANGO.
I personally don't appreciate mediocrity in anything, including relationships. So I devoted my life to sourcing the most effective tools to build the most amazing relationships. I learned not to nurture expectation, but express my desires; not to project, but look inside; I learned communication skills for both harmonious as well as conflict situations, and so on.
If something is in dissonance, I will address it. Most of the time things CAN be resolved, even if it needs TIME, and we together get the chance to move to the next level of CONNECTION & LOVE. Evolution in relating is one of the most exciting and satisfying things in the world.
There are also some rare times when the dissonance can't be resolved or is not resolved for a long time, even though both parties try their best. In such cases, I personally prefer to take DISTANCE. It doesn't have to be forever, but enough to give the chance for natural evolution to work on both parties while staying open for re-connection in the near or further future. If the impulse to re-connect will be there, it will happen naturally.
I loved this (pretty radical!) quote I saw in social media this morning, posted by one of my dear mentors Jaclyn Shaw:
"If it doesn't serve me, it doesn't get to take space in my ENERGY FIELD. And I am so wildly clear about that."
It is not surprising that the majority of people I attract in my life, tend to be and think the same. The LAW of resonance.
What is YOUR level of acceptance in RELATIONSHIPs?
Are you someone who accepts 70% good in relationships as good enough? Or you don't settle until you get to 100%?
Be aware that the % may reflect your SELF-WORTH.
And if there is some disconnect in your relationship(s), maybe something unexpressed, some needs and desires not voiced, something unforgiven, do you keep silent and continue as it is or do you address it?
You can still catch the REPLAY of Day 2 (by registering for the Masterclass https://hipsy.be/shop/60097-beyond-fear), and in 1 hour of the Masterclass you will be led through a powerful healing process with someone in your life with whom you feel a disconnect, pain or disappointment. You will also receive GOLDEN keys and tools for taking your relationships to next level.
Participants committed yesterday to take 1 ACTION step from what we covered in the masterclass with at least 1 person in their LIFE.
Tonight is Day 3, where we will take your CAREER & professional self-expression to the next level of BEING YOU in this "BEYOND fear" Masterclass!
https://hipsy.be/shop/60097-beyond-fear
With love,
Alexa Mira
