Dylan and I met in May of 2017 and since then, we have been intensely together, first travelling and living in Thailand for 2 months, then travelling through Greece and Spain, until we decided to settle down in Belgium, where you will find us now.

What brought us together was a powerful connection we felt towards each other. The connection was strong and pure, and immediately mutual. At that moment, I was still under the impact of my previous break up, my heart was not open, protecting the pain I felt. But Dylan’s presence and love helped to heal it very fast. Presence is his most natural state and Gift. This man can just Be. And listen. Pure. Daring. Intelligent.  

One day we were rolling in bed during siesta time, and I asked Dylan: “What does your heart desire the most?
What would you like to contribute to this world?”

After some silence he responded: “The only thing I truly desire is to share Love”.
”But how to do it practically or make a living out of it, I didn’t figure out yet”.

I smiled, because I could clearly see. Tantra work that I was doing was clearly a space for him! My heart is beating for people to be happy and fulfilled and I've been on a mission for several years to support people in creating fulfillment in their life. Dylan's presence, his unconditional love towards people, his purity – these qualities are so needed in this world and I could clearly see how much he could contribute in the Tantra retreats and workshops that I led. 

And so a few days later, still in Thailand, I gave a Lingam massage workshop to a group of people and Dylan was my demo model, diving literally straight in!

Since then we hold space for each retreat and workshop together, beautifully complementing each other. 

What I cherish the most in our union is our openness and sensitivity towards each other, as well as our honesty and totality. And yes, we have our growth moments too… Dylan is so comfortable with just Being, while I find my comfort in Doing; he loves being in the moment and following the Flow, while I love Creating and setting the tone. These polarities we often need to consciously embrace to find flow in co-creation.