Ralationships and Polarities
My two treasures ππ
Being in this relationship is a true blessing.
It feels 100% right.
And yet, we are soooo different. Never in my life I had to reconcile so many polarities. π
Dylan loves VIRTUAL world where he can live 100 lives in parallel plus this one with us, his family. I love my ONE world here, grounded in flesh and bones.
He eats almost everything I don't eat and vice versa - just a few things we can share when it comes to having dinner together.
I love working with people, being around people, interacting, working in transformation. He loves being on his own. "Oh Man!", he said yesterday "this lockdown style is totally my thing!"
I love personal growth, participating in workshops, retreats, I think I spent most of my money on books and courses. Dylan gets bored in these contexts fast. He rather does research on his own, moving with his fast pace, not needing to depend on someone's framework.
I love waking up earlier, he loves staying longer in bed.
I am not a night person. He is.
I love to start making love slowly. He loves to engage with intensity, passion, fire energy.
When I hold Alisia in my arms, he says I hold her like a piece of gold. He plays with her as if she were a teenager and my heart stops at times.
And I could go on and on...
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It looks like it's mission impossible to have anything in common. And how on Earth can we be in a relationship?
And yet the ONE thing that we have in common overarches all of the above.
LOVE
It's impossible to explain.
It just is.
And it's the strongest GLUE between any polarities, be it in a relationship or anywhere else. π
And our baby is the embodiment of these endless polarities in us. We are both curious how she is going to manifest all of this diversity in her.