What do I do?
When people ask me what I do and I say that I am a Tantra teacher with the focus of my programs on love, sexuality and relationships, I like to look at their reactions. Because the reaction, in a matter of milliseconds, reveals to me their attitude towards Sexuality, towards their Body, how they make Love, how connected they are to their Emotions and so much more...
Some blush and look down, like my bank consultant last week. Same happened in the insurance office.
Others, like some remote family members, immediately change the topic as if I never said anything.
Some keep asking "But what exactly do you do??"
Dylan's grandma is the best. She genuinly inquired what kind of practices I do in retreats and in my individual sessions and then asked "But how do you make sure people know it's not a bordel?"
My parents took time to understand. My mom tells me today "Wow, with you, I live a parallel life. I would have never thought something like this is possible to learn somewhere. I wish I could have learned it when I was young."
Interestingly, since I do this work I had only one client who confused my services for erotic services. But we cleared it also very fast. My website and the words expressed on it radiate pretty powerfully what it is about. Grandma agreed after she saw it.